I wash negel vasser in the morning after I get dressed make my bracha on my tzitzis and go to the bathroom. Apparently I got it all backwards, really one should immediately wash his hands and make a netilas yedayim upon putting their feet on the ground, withot walking 4 amos which I am told is about 8 feet give or take a little. I am also told that I cannot take the water to wash negel vassr with from the bathroom. Furthermore I am also shocked to find out that on the 6th page of the Shulchan Orech it mentions the laws of negel vasser and their importance. In the Kitzur Shulchan Orech it mentions this halacha on the fourth page.
I got to thinking in the past couple days about the importance of this halacha while not wanting to get out of bed to say kriays shema on time. My roommate comes barging in with the nu’s and uh’s referring to my hands full of tuma about to say shema which is totally assur. It got me to thinking how much wrong I really do and how hard of a mitzvah or halacha negel vasser is. Maybe its from all this Tanya I have been learning or maybe its just from general willpower to improve my self but I want to rock the negel vasser. The more I think about it the more I realize its near impossibility for most folks.
My roommate went on a rant tonight about how I could have gone to black hat yeshiva and not have ever been taught this basic yet difficult halacha. Its true that I don’t remember having learned it and know of very few people that keep this mitzvah to the tune of placing a basin with the washing cup in it by their bed, aI always used to think that was kind of chumra and all those people who had a bowl with a cup of water by their beds were nuts and too frum. I still wonder how many folks actually keep the water by their bed, so before they touch their eyes or go to the bathroom they have washed? Furthermore how many people actually wash every time they use the bathroom or scratch their heads or touch their shoes?
Are my worries of stepping into the cup in the middle of night while rushing for a midnight pee unfounded? Am I just being lazy and letting the yetzer harah dictate which mitzvos I choose to tackle based on their easiness? Is the true way of negel vasser really that hard? My roommate washes every single time he goes to the bathroom in the night, meaning he must wash and change the water and he says you cant take it from the bathroom making the process even more time consuming and frustrating when one just wants to hop back into bed. Please any comments or tips are appreciated.
goof proofer
-06002007-01-17T07:33:16-06:00312007b-06:00Wed, 17 Jan 2007 07:33:16 -0600 5, 206
If I’m not mistaken, washing near the bed is a chassidic chumrah, but I could be totally wrong.
The other day I heard a little girl from BP relating the following heart wrenching anecdote:
“One day I didn’t want to wash negel vasser by my bed and my mommy said that she had a friend who always forgot to wash n”g and one day she went to sleep and didn’t wake up in the morning”
Some chinuch, eh?
anonymus
-06002007-01-17T13:47:26-06:00312007b-06:00Wed, 17 Jan 2007 13:47:26 -0600 5, 206
Negel Vassar is pretty lame. Tumah on the hands? Puleeeease. There are more important mitzvahs. Stop focusing on all the superstitious mumbo jumbo in your yiddishkeit.
frumbutwithit
-06002007-01-17T17:12:35-06:00312007b-06:00Wed, 17 Jan 2007 17:12:35 -0600 5, 206
Lots of mumbo jumbo, but the question still stands if it was mumbo jumbo- why would it be one of the first halachas that the Shulchan Orech mentioned- last time I checked we did hold of him correct?
Paul R Nelson
-06002007-01-17T18:38:11-06:00312007b-06:00Wed, 17 Jan 2007 18:38:11 -0600 5, 206
“Furthermore I am also shocked to find out that on the 6th page of the Shulchan Orech it mentions the laws of negel vasser and their importance. In the Kitzur Shulchan Orech it mentions this halacha on the fourth page.”
Stop showin’ off! This post reminds me of my creepy British dorm counselor from Yeshiva in Israel. When he would wake me up in the morning i would always start rubbing my eyes. He would then proceed to scream, “NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!! DONT TOUCH YOUR EYES!!!!!!!!!!!!”
Ruach hatumah kinda freaked him out.
Sarah Zeldman
-06002007-01-18T08:41:11-06:00312007b-06:00Thu, 18 Jan 2007 08:41:11 -0600 5, 206
I think that we should always be working to improve our observance of the mitzvot, but we can’t take on do to all the mitzvot pefectly, all at the same time.
How do we know which mitzvah is more important than another? We don’t. We can only choose which one we decide to “work on first” — and I guess that decision should be made with the guidance of a Rabbi who knows you well and has an idea of which part of your observance you need to strengthen more.
So for now, if you this is the mitzvah you want to focus on improving — then do it. Or, leave this one for now and focus on doing another one. Or ask your Rabbi for advice on what mitzvah you should work on.
Yaniv
-06002007-01-19T02:27:28-06:00312007b-06:00Fri, 19 Jan 2007 02:27:28 -0600 5, 206
Yup, the bowl by the side of the bed thing is actually in the Kitzur Shulchan Aruch, or is the Shulchan Aruch? Either way, it’s not a chumra. And if you don’t want to step in it in the middle of the night, just slide it under the bed. The Kitzur actually says to use it, but if you don’t have one you can go to the bathroom and just wash there. The thing about “all of this” is that there is an easy way – find out what you need to do, and simply make it your second nature. The reality of it is that many of these important yet small Halachot are actually very easy. Can I add a link to your site to my blog? It’s http://www.jew-is-beautiful.blogspot.com? Thanks, Shabbat Shalom…
haKiruv
-06002007-08-09T00:15:56-06:00312007b-06:00Thu, 09 Aug 2007 00:15:56 -0600 5, 206
Frumsatire:
You’re a descendant of R’ Ganzfried who wrote the Kitzur Shulchan Aruch. You should know this. ;-P
I think it’s also written not to touch or look at your brit. Don’t get too frustrated. 🙂
Rentsy
-06002010-01-31T23:59:58-06:00312010b-06:00Sun, 31 Jan 2010 23:59:58 -0600 5, 206
The Vilna Geon held that the 4 amot were not required.
This is how I do the mitzva.
But I remember when I was 12 and I learned this, I really gave the washbasin under the bed a real hard try.
Anonymous
-06002015-08-16T11:57:55-06:00312015b-06:00Sun, 16 Aug 2015 11:57:55 -0600 5, 206
What do you do if you put the negel vasser out and come back and find your cat taking a drink?